Deciding to euthanize a pet is an agonizing process. You will likely experience a wide range of complicated emotions as the time comes.  It's important that you are prepared for this trying event and deal with the feelings as they come.
There is great fear in not knowing what will occur on the day of the euthanization. Discuss details with your veterinarian and ask any questions you may have. Our veterinarians are very familiar with the experience and are able to talk with you about the process and feelings that go along with it.

Spend time with your pet in the weeks or days leading up to the euthanasia. This time will be very special for both of you. You will undoubtedly feel very emotional and sad about the upcoming procedure but try to remain in control. Your pet will pick up on your feelings and you want this time to be as enjoyable as possible for them.

Decide whether you would like to be there during euthanasia. Some people wish to be with their pet and officially say goodbye during the final moments. Others feel that the experience may be too much to handle in person. Whether you choose to be with your pet or not, rest assured that you have given him a lifetime of love. Either decision you make is appropriate.

 

Map out time to spend with your pet directly before the procedure. If you choose to not be in the room, you can have still have some private time with your pet beforehand. It is sometimes helpful to say goodbye in this final setting.

 

 

Talk to your family about euthanasia. Everyone should be able to share their thoughts and feelings on the process, and ultimately decide if they would like to be present or not.  It can be a traumatic experience so fully consider the outcomes prior to deciding. 6

Talk to your veterinarian about where the euthanasia will take place. Most commonly, it is done in the office, however, some doctors do make house calls.  In such cases, the veterinarian can come to your home  to perform the euthanasia.

 

Say goodbye to your pet. Take a few final moments to express your feelings for your pet. Don't be afraid to hug, pet and touch them. Do whatever you need to do to say goodbye. Take comfort in the fact that they do not know or understand what is going on.

You are not alone.  There are many others experiencing a similar greif.  These are two links that offer support groups and  that may help you during this difficult time.

Empty Leash Support Group            Rainbow Bridge Support Center